Author: Tinder Hella
Publisher: Hella Good House of Publishing
ISBN: 9780999681961
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 62
Book Description
It can make some say "Ahhhhh." It can make others say "Aaaaah F**K " Either way, wax play is a kink that everyone can enjoy. Learn how to make it sensual or sadistic. Make it messy and artistic. Be sexy or silly. Be connected and close on a whole new level. TinderHella isn't an expert. She is merely a student who wishes to spread the gospel of wax.
Wax Lyrical
Author: Tinder Hella
Publisher: Hella Good House of Publishing
ISBN: 9780999681961
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 62
Book Description
It can make some say "Ahhhhh." It can make others say "Aaaaah F**K " Either way, wax play is a kink that everyone can enjoy. Learn how to make it sensual or sadistic. Make it messy and artistic. Be sexy or silly. Be connected and close on a whole new level. TinderHella isn't an expert. She is merely a student who wishes to spread the gospel of wax.
Publisher: Hella Good House of Publishing
ISBN: 9780999681961
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 62
Book Description
It can make some say "Ahhhhh." It can make others say "Aaaaah F**K " Either way, wax play is a kink that everyone can enjoy. Learn how to make it sensual or sadistic. Make it messy and artistic. Be sexy or silly. Be connected and close on a whole new level. TinderHella isn't an expert. She is merely a student who wishes to spread the gospel of wax.
Playing Well With Others
Author: Lee Harrington
Publisher: SCB Distributors
ISBN: 0937609595
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 216
Book Description
Whether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink. While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* -- the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community. You'll learn to: • Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires • Ease your way into established communities • Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities • Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you • Care for your relationships as you explore new territory • Negotiate for play and aftercare • Go back to the “world at large” without ruffling feathers • ...and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?! The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom. Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the "community" aspect of the kink lifestyle.
Publisher: SCB Distributors
ISBN: 0937609595
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 216
Book Description
Whether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink. While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* -- the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community. You'll learn to: • Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires • Ease your way into established communities • Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities • Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you • Care for your relationships as you explore new territory • Negotiate for play and aftercare • Go back to the “world at large” without ruffling feathers • ...and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?! The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom. Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the "community" aspect of the kink lifestyle.
The Dome: Beginnings
Author: Keith Nosdivad
Publisher: Deep Desires Press
ISBN:
Category : Fiction
Languages : en
Pages : 52
Book Description
South Western Montana has been trapped under a mysterious dome, after a chemical disaster. Trapped within, Gavin and his friend Ben have been searching for Gavin’s girlfriend Jennifer for the last year, all while trying to evade the Wolf Pack, a group of soldiers who can shift into wolves. They have grown very close during this time, but neither one truly understands their feelings for one another. Jennifer has been a prisoner of Colonel Steele, the leader of the Wolf Pack. She spent a year without clothing as the conflicted Colonel tried to cure what he sees as unwholesome urges. It has changed how she sees the world, and how she sees herself. Even if they find her, will Gavin and Ben be able to set her free—in body and in mind? Can they find happiness under the dome? The Dome: Beginnings is a 15,000-word bisexual paranormal erotic romance novella.
Publisher: Deep Desires Press
ISBN:
Category : Fiction
Languages : en
Pages : 52
Book Description
South Western Montana has been trapped under a mysterious dome, after a chemical disaster. Trapped within, Gavin and his friend Ben have been searching for Gavin’s girlfriend Jennifer for the last year, all while trying to evade the Wolf Pack, a group of soldiers who can shift into wolves. They have grown very close during this time, but neither one truly understands their feelings for one another. Jennifer has been a prisoner of Colonel Steele, the leader of the Wolf Pack. She spent a year without clothing as the conflicted Colonel tried to cure what he sees as unwholesome urges. It has changed how she sees the world, and how she sees herself. Even if they find her, will Gavin and Ben be able to set her free—in body and in mind? Can they find happiness under the dome? The Dome: Beginnings is a 15,000-word bisexual paranormal erotic romance novella.
Kink-Affirming Practice
Author: Stefani Goerlich
Publisher: Taylor & Francis
ISBN: 1000620492
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 221
Book Description
Kink-Affirming Practice is an essential guide on how clinicians can ethically and effectively integrate elements of their client’s BSDM identities and practices into their treatment planning, creative interventions, and client self-care. Embracing both an anthropological understanding of this diverse yet still marginalized community, as well as a sex-positive approach to mental health, Stefani Goerlich recognizes the ways in which specific power exchange dynamics can evoke positive behavioral changes in clients, and guides the reader in how to integrate these concepts into their clinical work. Chapters discuss the foundations of BDSM, what is meant by kink-affirming practice, the purpose of claiming power and ceding control, integrating and reclaiming identities, dominant/submissive personas, and the benefits of caregiving kink, such as pet play. It practically discusses how to conduct a kink-affirming risk assessment, as well as exploring topics like ethical and health boundary setting, how to gain informed consent, and the unique issues that arise when clinicians catch themselves romancing the kink. This book is invaluable reading for professionals working with clients who engage in BDSM activities, such as marriage and family therapists, sex therapists, clinical social workers, and counselors. It may also be useful reading for students on both undergraduate and graduate level human sexuality and sexuality courses.
Publisher: Taylor & Francis
ISBN: 1000620492
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 221
Book Description
Kink-Affirming Practice is an essential guide on how clinicians can ethically and effectively integrate elements of their client’s BSDM identities and practices into their treatment planning, creative interventions, and client self-care. Embracing both an anthropological understanding of this diverse yet still marginalized community, as well as a sex-positive approach to mental health, Stefani Goerlich recognizes the ways in which specific power exchange dynamics can evoke positive behavioral changes in clients, and guides the reader in how to integrate these concepts into their clinical work. Chapters discuss the foundations of BDSM, what is meant by kink-affirming practice, the purpose of claiming power and ceding control, integrating and reclaiming identities, dominant/submissive personas, and the benefits of caregiving kink, such as pet play. It practically discusses how to conduct a kink-affirming risk assessment, as well as exploring topics like ethical and health boundary setting, how to gain informed consent, and the unique issues that arise when clinicians catch themselves romancing the kink. This book is invaluable reading for professionals working with clients who engage in BDSM activities, such as marriage and family therapists, sex therapists, clinical social workers, and counselors. It may also be useful reading for students on both undergraduate and graduate level human sexuality and sexuality courses.
Please Scream Quietly
Author: Julie L. Fennell
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield
ISBN: 1538168774
Category : Social Science
Languages : en
Pages : 297
Book Description
In Please Scream Quietly, professor and self-identified kinkster Julie Fennell offers an intimate, nuanced, and engaging portrayal of the lives and loves of a BDSM community. In this first-of-its-kind collective autobiography of the frequently misunderstood and often maligned BDSM subculture, Fennell’s insider perspective shows that while most people are a little bit kinky, the BDSM community teaches its members to emphasize and cherish their kinky differences. Drawing from interviews, survey data, and years of observations, Fennell showcases kinksters’ lives and loves in a captivating, vibrant, and authoritative story. She addresses questions such as: How do kinksters define their identities? How do BDSM community members construct socially meaningful identities for themselves? Are BDSM identities always experienced as sexual? How are kinky relationships and consensual nonmonogamy/polyamory experienced in the community? Fennell provides an unprecedented exploration of kinksters’ community group norms and rules, analyzing the demographics along with the behavioral and attitudinal norms in—and out—of BDSM dungeons. Fennell analyzes the multiple ways kinksters construct positive and negative social status, illustrating how the social world of kinksters is frequently quite different from outsiders’ perceptions of it.
Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield
ISBN: 1538168774
Category : Social Science
Languages : en
Pages : 297
Book Description
In Please Scream Quietly, professor and self-identified kinkster Julie Fennell offers an intimate, nuanced, and engaging portrayal of the lives and loves of a BDSM community. In this first-of-its-kind collective autobiography of the frequently misunderstood and often maligned BDSM subculture, Fennell’s insider perspective shows that while most people are a little bit kinky, the BDSM community teaches its members to emphasize and cherish their kinky differences. Drawing from interviews, survey data, and years of observations, Fennell showcases kinksters’ lives and loves in a captivating, vibrant, and authoritative story. She addresses questions such as: How do kinksters define their identities? How do BDSM community members construct socially meaningful identities for themselves? Are BDSM identities always experienced as sexual? How are kinky relationships and consensual nonmonogamy/polyamory experienced in the community? Fennell provides an unprecedented exploration of kinksters’ community group norms and rules, analyzing the demographics along with the behavioral and attitudinal norms in—and out—of BDSM dungeons. Fennell analyzes the multiple ways kinksters construct positive and negative social status, illustrating how the social world of kinksters is frequently quite different from outsiders’ perceptions of it.
Play, Pain and Religion
Author: Alison Robertson
Publisher: Equinox Publishing (UK)
ISBN: 9781800500297
Category : Bondage (Sexual behavior)
Languages : en
Pages : 224
Book Description
Play, Pain and Religion is the first consideration of the practices associated with BDSM (bondage, domination, sadism and masochism) in the context of religious studies scholarship. The focus is an exploration of BDSM experience as it emerges from the complex interactions of kink activities and relationship. Experiences categorised by BDSM practitioners as 'religious' and 'spiritual' are commonly described in the same terms, and given the same value, as descriptions of experiences which are not so categorised. Play, Pain and Religion examines practitioner accounts of BDSM experience alongside those practitioners' personal identification with these terms. This book argues that the significance of a given experience is not located solely within any intrinsic quality ascribed to it but in subsequent constructions around the nature and meaning of the event. It examines some such constructions, moving away from absolute definitions of religion or religions to consider the religious as an active process of meaning-, world- and story-making. By using this 'religioning' framework, this book examines ways in which BDSM can potentially be used in such processes. Play, Pain and Religion is a valuable resource for scholars of religion and of kink, for people interested in the complexities of ascribing meaning and value to human behaviour, and for kinksters interested in their own kink and why it is they do what they do.
Publisher: Equinox Publishing (UK)
ISBN: 9781800500297
Category : Bondage (Sexual behavior)
Languages : en
Pages : 224
Book Description
Play, Pain and Religion is the first consideration of the practices associated with BDSM (bondage, domination, sadism and masochism) in the context of religious studies scholarship. The focus is an exploration of BDSM experience as it emerges from the complex interactions of kink activities and relationship. Experiences categorised by BDSM practitioners as 'religious' and 'spiritual' are commonly described in the same terms, and given the same value, as descriptions of experiences which are not so categorised. Play, Pain and Religion examines practitioner accounts of BDSM experience alongside those practitioners' personal identification with these terms. This book argues that the significance of a given experience is not located solely within any intrinsic quality ascribed to it but in subsequent constructions around the nature and meaning of the event. It examines some such constructions, moving away from absolute definitions of religion or religions to consider the religious as an active process of meaning-, world- and story-making. By using this 'religioning' framework, this book examines ways in which BDSM can potentially be used in such processes. Play, Pain and Religion is a valuable resource for scholars of religion and of kink, for people interested in the complexities of ascribing meaning and value to human behaviour, and for kinksters interested in their own kink and why it is they do what they do.
The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink
Author: Douglas Thomas
Publisher: Taylor & Francis
ISBN: 1000937089
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 247
Book Description
This fascinating volume investigates how the concept of soul is connected to BDSM and kink, exploring the world of alternative sexualities through the psychology of C. G. Jung and James Hillman as readers are guided on a provocative and lively journey through darker aspects of the sexual imagination. Contextualized both in sexual history and contemporary events, the book unveils surprising points of correspondence between the tortured fantasy-images of Jung’s The Red Book and the modern world of BDSM and describes from Hillman’s psychology a soul-centered perspective that affirms the psychological value of fantasy-images animating our human lives. The book also considers the collective archetypal sources of historical trauma which have provided inspiration to some of the more disquieting aspects of BDSM and details how the deep psychology of BDSM creates a space in the modern world to ethically engage these practices. Kinksters and BDSM practitioners will discover a psychological language that clarifies and affirms why these activities and relationships can be so intensely intimate, pleasurable, and transformative. Psychotherapists and enthusiasts of Jungian and archetypal psychology will find fresh insights here that support the practice of BDSM as a form of individuation and a path for bringing soul into the world.
Publisher: Taylor & Francis
ISBN: 1000937089
Category : Psychology
Languages : en
Pages : 247
Book Description
This fascinating volume investigates how the concept of soul is connected to BDSM and kink, exploring the world of alternative sexualities through the psychology of C. G. Jung and James Hillman as readers are guided on a provocative and lively journey through darker aspects of the sexual imagination. Contextualized both in sexual history and contemporary events, the book unveils surprising points of correspondence between the tortured fantasy-images of Jung’s The Red Book and the modern world of BDSM and describes from Hillman’s psychology a soul-centered perspective that affirms the psychological value of fantasy-images animating our human lives. The book also considers the collective archetypal sources of historical trauma which have provided inspiration to some of the more disquieting aspects of BDSM and details how the deep psychology of BDSM creates a space in the modern world to ethically engage these practices. Kinksters and BDSM practitioners will discover a psychological language that clarifies and affirms why these activities and relationships can be so intensely intimate, pleasurable, and transformative. Psychotherapists and enthusiasts of Jungian and archetypal psychology will find fresh insights here that support the practice of BDSM as a form of individuation and a path for bringing soul into the world.
The Softest Kinksters Collection
Author: Ali Williams
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781739764104
Category : Fiction
Languages : en
Pages : 156
Book Description
Soft, sweet and scorchingly hot... The Softest Kinksters Collection collects short romances that capture snippets of kinky lives. From a subby himbo librarian, to married lesbians, to Dommes with ADHD, these kinksters use kink to alleviate anxiety, find connection, and to get off. Hard. Includes a foreword by NYT Bestseller Eden Bradley, and a "Kink is Complicated" essay by Swoonies nominee Stefanie Simpson, as well as two new, exclusive stories!
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781739764104
Category : Fiction
Languages : en
Pages : 156
Book Description
Soft, sweet and scorchingly hot... The Softest Kinksters Collection collects short romances that capture snippets of kinky lives. From a subby himbo librarian, to married lesbians, to Dommes with ADHD, these kinksters use kink to alleviate anxiety, find connection, and to get off. Hard. Includes a foreword by NYT Bestseller Eden Bradley, and a "Kink is Complicated" essay by Swoonies nominee Stefanie Simpson, as well as two new, exclusive stories!
When We Collide
Author: Rebecca J. Epstein-Levi
Publisher: Indiana University Press
ISBN: 0253065011
Category : Body, Mind & Spirit
Languages : en
Pages : 275
Book Description
When We Collide is a landmark reassessment of the significance of sex in contemporary Jewish ethics. Rebecca Epstein-Levi offers a fresh and vital exploration of sexual ethics and virtue ethics in conversation with rabbinic texts and feminist and queer theory. Epstein-Levi explores how sex is not a special or particular form of social interaction but one that is entangled with all other forms of social interaction. The activities of sex—doing it, talking about it, thinking about it, regulating it—are sites of ongoing moral formation on individual, interpersonal, and communal levels. When We Collide explores the development of Jewish sexual ethics, and represents an opportunity to move beyond the usual heteronormative accounts that are presented as though they were neutral representations of what "Judaism teaches about sex."
Publisher: Indiana University Press
ISBN: 0253065011
Category : Body, Mind & Spirit
Languages : en
Pages : 275
Book Description
When We Collide is a landmark reassessment of the significance of sex in contemporary Jewish ethics. Rebecca Epstein-Levi offers a fresh and vital exploration of sexual ethics and virtue ethics in conversation with rabbinic texts and feminist and queer theory. Epstein-Levi explores how sex is not a special or particular form of social interaction but one that is entangled with all other forms of social interaction. The activities of sex—doing it, talking about it, thinking about it, regulating it—are sites of ongoing moral formation on individual, interpersonal, and communal levels. When We Collide explores the development of Jewish sexual ethics, and represents an opportunity to move beyond the usual heteronormative accounts that are presented as though they were neutral representations of what "Judaism teaches about sex."
With Sprinkles on Top
Author: Stefani Goerlich
Publisher: Sounds True
ISBN: 1649630352
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 196
Book Description
A sex therapist’s playful, affirming, and informative guide to exploring desire differences between kinky and nonkinky, or “vanilla,” partners With Sprinkles on Top offers a positive and empowering resource for talking about and working through sexual differences—particularly between kinky and vanilla partners. With more than 80 percent of adult couples in the US reporting desire discrepancies between partners, and many people holding fantasies they don’t feel comfortable sharing, With Sprinkles on Top offers much-needed support. As Dr. Stefani Goerlich makes clear—vanilla can be delicious... and so can kink! Focusing on communication and connection, this guide helps you find the sprinkles that can enhance your relationship. With empathy and understanding, Dr. Goerlich addresses hopes and fears on both sides of a desire divide and provides shame-free guidance for relationships of different shapes and orientations. Here you’ll find: • Helpful information about BDSM and kink—what it is, its effects on relationships, what a partner’s interest might imply... or not! • Worksheets and questionnaires to help each partner explore their desires, what turns them on, when they might feel open to experimentation, and how to talk about it • Setting boundaries—tips for feeling safe and drawing the line with care • Guidance for staying true to yourself, satisfying your partner, and finding new delights together • Insights and guidance on what “normal” and “kinky” actually mean, bringing imagination into the bedroom, polyamorous possibilities, and much more As Dr. Goerlich writes, “The vanilla people that I work with tell me that they want relationships built on mutual love, respect, understanding, gentleness, and trust. Funnily enough, the kinky people I work with tell me the same thing... just that they want the ‘gentleness’ aspect to be negotiable.” With Sprinkles on Top affirms that vanilla and kinky people can thrive together—and offers practical solutions for protecting, preserving, and strengthening your relationship.
Publisher: Sounds True
ISBN: 1649630352
Category : Family & Relationships
Languages : en
Pages : 196
Book Description
A sex therapist’s playful, affirming, and informative guide to exploring desire differences between kinky and nonkinky, or “vanilla,” partners With Sprinkles on Top offers a positive and empowering resource for talking about and working through sexual differences—particularly between kinky and vanilla partners. With more than 80 percent of adult couples in the US reporting desire discrepancies between partners, and many people holding fantasies they don’t feel comfortable sharing, With Sprinkles on Top offers much-needed support. As Dr. Stefani Goerlich makes clear—vanilla can be delicious... and so can kink! Focusing on communication and connection, this guide helps you find the sprinkles that can enhance your relationship. With empathy and understanding, Dr. Goerlich addresses hopes and fears on both sides of a desire divide and provides shame-free guidance for relationships of different shapes and orientations. Here you’ll find: • Helpful information about BDSM and kink—what it is, its effects on relationships, what a partner’s interest might imply... or not! • Worksheets and questionnaires to help each partner explore their desires, what turns them on, when they might feel open to experimentation, and how to talk about it • Setting boundaries—tips for feeling safe and drawing the line with care • Guidance for staying true to yourself, satisfying your partner, and finding new delights together • Insights and guidance on what “normal” and “kinky” actually mean, bringing imagination into the bedroom, polyamorous possibilities, and much more As Dr. Goerlich writes, “The vanilla people that I work with tell me that they want relationships built on mutual love, respect, understanding, gentleness, and trust. Funnily enough, the kinky people I work with tell me the same thing... just that they want the ‘gentleness’ aspect to be negotiable.” With Sprinkles on Top affirms that vanilla and kinky people can thrive together—and offers practical solutions for protecting, preserving, and strengthening your relationship.