Author: Kate Kinsey
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
ISBN: 9781501093609
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 0
Book Description
Beyond any shades of grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had. Erotic author Kate Kinsey ("Red," and "The Totally Uncensored Kinky Adventures of Chloe St. Claire, Sex Slave") brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.Topics covered include: the differences between dominants and masters, submissives and slaves, and tops and bottoms; the different dominant styles; the truth about "training" to be a submissive; how to find like-minded folks in your area; how to negotiate scenes and relationships; what to expect at your first dungeon party; why some people actually enjoy pain; and the warning signs to look out for when talking to potential partners."Kinsey has written a no-nonsense guide that thoroughly explains the various kinks and fetishes that come under the umbrella of BDSM. Most importantly, she emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself along the way with knowledge, friends and self-awareness.""This is not fiction, but reality. Kate Kinsey has the experience to tell it like it is, not the way some vanilla writer imagines it to be."
How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive
What Submissives Want to Know
Author: Kate Kinsey
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781976921230
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 191
Book Description
Kate Kinsey, best-selling author of "How to be a Healthy and Happy Submissive," has been an author, educator and collared submissive in the kinky world for more than 15 years.Kinsey answers 39 questions from real submissives, both newbie and experienced, that encompass the most common problems faced by those who choose the submissive path. Kinsey offers down-to-earth, non-judgmental advice on questions including: Do I need to be trained? Can I build my own dominant? What if my husband wants me to be his mistress? What if I only want to serve non-sexually? Do I have to let a dominant demean me? What should I look for in a dominant's profile? How much should I share in my online profile? Are there counselors for kinky folk? What do I wear to a high-protocol dinner? What if I'm not a skinny Minnie? is it normal to feel so needy? Should a dominant ask me for money? "What Submissives Want to Know" builds on the foundation set out in "How to be a Healthy and Happy Submissive" with a deeper dive into real-life situations and the complexities of Dominant/submissive relationships. "Even if a particular question doesn't seem to reflect your relationship," Kinsey says, "there are elements to every question that resonate with the submissive heart, and help you better understand the kind of submissive you want to be."
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781976921230
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 191
Book Description
Kate Kinsey, best-selling author of "How to be a Healthy and Happy Submissive," has been an author, educator and collared submissive in the kinky world for more than 15 years.Kinsey answers 39 questions from real submissives, both newbie and experienced, that encompass the most common problems faced by those who choose the submissive path. Kinsey offers down-to-earth, non-judgmental advice on questions including: Do I need to be trained? Can I build my own dominant? What if my husband wants me to be his mistress? What if I only want to serve non-sexually? Do I have to let a dominant demean me? What should I look for in a dominant's profile? How much should I share in my online profile? Are there counselors for kinky folk? What do I wear to a high-protocol dinner? What if I'm not a skinny Minnie? is it normal to feel so needy? Should a dominant ask me for money? "What Submissives Want to Know" builds on the foundation set out in "How to be a Healthy and Happy Submissive" with a deeper dive into real-life situations and the complexities of Dominant/submissive relationships. "Even if a particular question doesn't seem to reflect your relationship," Kinsey says, "there are elements to every question that resonate with the submissive heart, and help you better understand the kind of submissive you want to be."
Submissive Training
Author: Hayden Reese
Publisher:
ISBN:
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 108
Book Description
BDSM - do these four letters bring shivers of pleasure - or pain down your back? There are many misconceptions about what BDSM is, but if approached with the idea that it is a conscious lifestyle choice, it might be more properly understood. Or do you find yourself wondering what would the perfect submissive do, what would they say, how would they act, what would they wear, and so on? Being a submissive involves a lot more than submitting to your Dom's will, dressing up and speaking down. You have to pay attention to your whole being - how you think, react, feel, position yourself, speak and look. In this book, we will explore the oft-taboo subject of BDSM and you will learn: Tips on how to present yourself as a perfect sub, things you have to prepare and look out for 17 hottest sub roleplay roles that you can use to titillate your Dom 239 naughtiest BDSM dirty talk examples to arouse each other to greater sexual heights If applied all these correctly, it can actually elevate your love life, so here's to exploring new and exciting world!
Publisher:
ISBN:
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 108
Book Description
BDSM - do these four letters bring shivers of pleasure - or pain down your back? There are many misconceptions about what BDSM is, but if approached with the idea that it is a conscious lifestyle choice, it might be more properly understood. Or do you find yourself wondering what would the perfect submissive do, what would they say, how would they act, what would they wear, and so on? Being a submissive involves a lot more than submitting to your Dom's will, dressing up and speaking down. You have to pay attention to your whole being - how you think, react, feel, position yourself, speak and look. In this book, we will explore the oft-taboo subject of BDSM and you will learn: Tips on how to present yourself as a perfect sub, things you have to prepare and look out for 17 hottest sub roleplay roles that you can use to titillate your Dom 239 naughtiest BDSM dirty talk examples to arouse each other to greater sexual heights If applied all these correctly, it can actually elevate your love life, so here's to exploring new and exciting world!
Guide to BDSM
Author: Donna Prince
Publisher:
ISBN:
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 194
Book Description
You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of "pain" we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So... Scroll up, click the buy now button and get your copy of "Guide to BDSM" ! Check also the others "Sex Life Tips" books: 1 - Art of Seduction: Boost your Sexual Intelligence Learning How to Flirt with Techniques of Verbal Communication, Signal and Understand a Sex Desire for Woman and Man 2 - DIRTY TALK LANGUAGE: How to Learn with Examples of Phrases of Lust to Have a Great Sex with Your Man or Woman, Make It Wilder and Drive Your Partner Crazy 3 - Sex Games for Couples: Ways to Spice up your Relationship with Hot Quiz, Games and Sexy Conversation 4 - Guide to BDSM: to Have a Healthy and Mindful Dom / Sub Relationship, with Techniques of Dominance and How to be a Good Submissive for your Master
Publisher:
ISBN:
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 194
Book Description
You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of "pain" we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So... Scroll up, click the buy now button and get your copy of "Guide to BDSM" ! Check also the others "Sex Life Tips" books: 1 - Art of Seduction: Boost your Sexual Intelligence Learning How to Flirt with Techniques of Verbal Communication, Signal and Understand a Sex Desire for Woman and Man 2 - DIRTY TALK LANGUAGE: How to Learn with Examples of Phrases of Lust to Have a Great Sex with Your Man or Woman, Make It Wilder and Drive Your Partner Crazy 3 - Sex Games for Couples: Ways to Spice up your Relationship with Hot Quiz, Games and Sexy Conversation 4 - Guide to BDSM: to Have a Healthy and Mindful Dom / Sub Relationship, with Techniques of Dominance and How to be a Good Submissive for your Master
Submissive Training
Author: Elizabeth Cramer
Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
ISBN:
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 61
Book Description
Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. "Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace.
Publisher: Living Plus Healthy Publishing
ISBN:
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 61
Book Description
Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. "Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace.
The Big Workbook for Submissives
Author: Rebecca E. Blanton
Publisher: Rebecca Blanton
ISBN: 0990923436
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 103
Book Description
The Big Workbook for Submissives provides a large number of essays, journaling exercises, research assignments, and play assignments to help explore your submissive side. This book is great both for the person new to submission and for the person who has been practicing for some time and wants to deepen their submission. It is written for all genders and sexual orientations and accommodates both monogamous couple and poly relationships. The workbook is based on the class "Deepening Your Submission" taught by the author around the United States. This book takes you on a journey exploring your idealized version of submission to your practice and helps identify what you desire and need in your submission. This workbook may be used alone or with a partner.
Publisher: Rebecca Blanton
ISBN: 0990923436
Category : Education
Languages : en
Pages : 103
Book Description
The Big Workbook for Submissives provides a large number of essays, journaling exercises, research assignments, and play assignments to help explore your submissive side. This book is great both for the person new to submission and for the person who has been practicing for some time and wants to deepen their submission. It is written for all genders and sexual orientations and accommodates both monogamous couple and poly relationships. The workbook is based on the class "Deepening Your Submission" taught by the author around the United States. This book takes you on a journey exploring your idealized version of submission to your practice and helps identify what you desire and need in your submission. This workbook may be used alone or with a partner.
Toxic Positivity
Author: Whitney Goodman
Publisher: Penguin
ISBN: 0593542754
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 305
Book Description
A powerful guide to owning our emotions—even the difficult ones—in order to show up authentically in the world, from the popular therapist behind the Instagram account @sitwithwhit. Every day, we’re bombarded with pressure to be positive. From “good vibes only” and “life is good” memes, to endless reminders to “look on the bright side,” we’re constantly told that the key to happiness is silencing negativity wherever it crops up—in ourselves and in others. Even when faced with illness, loss, breakups, and other challenges, there’s little space for talking about our real feelings—and processing them so that we can feel better and move forward. But if non-stop positivity is the answer, why are so many of us anxious, depressed, and burned out? In this refreshingly honest guide, sought-after therapist Whitney Goodman shares the latest research along with everyday examples and client stories that reveal how damaging toxic positivity is to ourselves and our relationships, and presents simple ways to experience and work through difficult emotions. The result is more authenticity, connection, and growth—and ultimately, a path to showing up as you truly are.
Publisher: Penguin
ISBN: 0593542754
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 305
Book Description
A powerful guide to owning our emotions—even the difficult ones—in order to show up authentically in the world, from the popular therapist behind the Instagram account @sitwithwhit. Every day, we’re bombarded with pressure to be positive. From “good vibes only” and “life is good” memes, to endless reminders to “look on the bright side,” we’re constantly told that the key to happiness is silencing negativity wherever it crops up—in ourselves and in others. Even when faced with illness, loss, breakups, and other challenges, there’s little space for talking about our real feelings—and processing them so that we can feel better and move forward. But if non-stop positivity is the answer, why are so many of us anxious, depressed, and burned out? In this refreshingly honest guide, sought-after therapist Whitney Goodman shares the latest research along with everyday examples and client stories that reveal how damaging toxic positivity is to ourselves and our relationships, and presents simple ways to experience and work through difficult emotions. The result is more authenticity, connection, and growth—and ultimately, a path to showing up as you truly are.
Submissive Training
Author: Joshua Matthew
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
ISBN: 9781979754323
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 100
Book Description
SUBMISSIVE TRAINING Thinking of becoming a slave to Christian Grey? Or perhaps you simply wish to learn more about the world of BDSM, and discover what it takes to really become a full-fledged submissive? Either way, this would be the book that will teach you how to become a better, naughtier submissive through the following topics: Understanding the psychology behind D/s relationships, how you can get into one and tips to ensure your safety and well-being for the long-haul. A brief introduction into the realm of BDSM, i.e., Bondage, Discipline and Sado-masochism Basic knowledge on submissive training in the perspective of a submissive Tips to please your Dominant partner through conditioning, rules and protocols and even pain tolerance techniques 30 sexual scenarios for you and your dominant partner to explore and apply for the best Dominant/submissive - D/s experience If you really want to know what submissives do/say/feel behind closed doors then this is the book for you.
Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
ISBN: 9781979754323
Category :
Languages : en
Pages : 100
Book Description
SUBMISSIVE TRAINING Thinking of becoming a slave to Christian Grey? Or perhaps you simply wish to learn more about the world of BDSM, and discover what it takes to really become a full-fledged submissive? Either way, this would be the book that will teach you how to become a better, naughtier submissive through the following topics: Understanding the psychology behind D/s relationships, how you can get into one and tips to ensure your safety and well-being for the long-haul. A brief introduction into the realm of BDSM, i.e., Bondage, Discipline and Sado-masochism Basic knowledge on submissive training in the perspective of a submissive Tips to please your Dominant partner through conditioning, rules and protocols and even pain tolerance techniques 30 sexual scenarios for you and your dominant partner to explore and apply for the best Dominant/submissive - D/s experience If you really want to know what submissives do/say/feel behind closed doors then this is the book for you.
The Perfect Submissive
Author: Kay Jaybee
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781908262783
Category : Fiction
Languages : en
Pages : 0
Book Description
Hidden behind the Fables Hotel's respectable facade, five specially adapted rooms wait; ready to cater for the kinky requirements of its guests. When Mrs Peters, the mistress of the hotel's exclusive entertainment facility, meets the new booking clerk, Jess Sanders, she instantly recognises the young woman's potential as a deliciously meek addition to her specialist staff. All it will take is a little education. Under the tutelage of the dominatrix, Miss Sarah, Jess learns to cope with her unexpected training schedule, the increasingly erotic chill she experiences each time she survives a new level of correction, and a truly sexy exercise routine. Temporarily distracted from her intimidating rule over Fable's top floor by an enigmatic artist, Mrs Peters begins to plan how she can secure his obedient assistance, in grooming Jess into the perfect submissive...
Publisher:
ISBN: 9781908262783
Category : Fiction
Languages : en
Pages : 0
Book Description
Hidden behind the Fables Hotel's respectable facade, five specially adapted rooms wait; ready to cater for the kinky requirements of its guests. When Mrs Peters, the mistress of the hotel's exclusive entertainment facility, meets the new booking clerk, Jess Sanders, she instantly recognises the young woman's potential as a deliciously meek addition to her specialist staff. All it will take is a little education. Under the tutelage of the dominatrix, Miss Sarah, Jess learns to cope with her unexpected training schedule, the increasingly erotic chill she experiences each time she survives a new level of correction, and a truly sexy exercise routine. Temporarily distracted from her intimidating rule over Fable's top floor by an enigmatic artist, Mrs Peters begins to plan how she can secure his obedient assistance, in grooming Jess into the perfect submissive...
Mastering the Art of Dominance
Author: Matthew Larocco
Publisher: Enlightened Publishing
ISBN:
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 94
Book Description
Are you a frustrated Dom? Have you tried to be the best Dom possible but can’t seem to find any subs? Do your sessions end prematurely? Are you not quite sure what you’re doing wrong or how to start setting up programs for a sub that wants emotional healing? You’ve come to the right place! Continuing our line of BDSM education books, we’ve compiled a list of tips that we call “Troubleshooting Tips”, especially made for Doms who are stuck in a circle of inactivity. Your subs may complain that you’re too aggressive or too nice, or maybe that you just don’t understand. The problem is not necessarily with you or your attitude. Usually it’s because you haven’t been formally trained on how to DIRECT a sub towards a progressive plan of action. It is your job to train a sub, explain the punishments and rewards, and transform her thinking. No Dom has ever started off a complete natural. Everyone needs training and additional tips for turning their intermediate knowledge into professional / expert level understanding. In "Mastering The Art of Dominance," you will learn: - How to attract subs (even if you’ve been unsuccessful in the past) - How to avoid mentally disturbed subs before it’s too late - How to turn your friend-with-benefits into a sub - How to identify troubled subs who can be helped and how to help them - How to manage multiple subs and multiple partners with fellow Doms - How to deal with jealousy and rivalries with multiple subs - And much more... By the time you finish this book, you’re going to be ready to be a top of your class Dom!
Publisher: Enlightened Publishing
ISBN:
Category : Self-Help
Languages : en
Pages : 94
Book Description
Are you a frustrated Dom? Have you tried to be the best Dom possible but can’t seem to find any subs? Do your sessions end prematurely? Are you not quite sure what you’re doing wrong or how to start setting up programs for a sub that wants emotional healing? You’ve come to the right place! Continuing our line of BDSM education books, we’ve compiled a list of tips that we call “Troubleshooting Tips”, especially made for Doms who are stuck in a circle of inactivity. Your subs may complain that you’re too aggressive or too nice, or maybe that you just don’t understand. The problem is not necessarily with you or your attitude. Usually it’s because you haven’t been formally trained on how to DIRECT a sub towards a progressive plan of action. It is your job to train a sub, explain the punishments and rewards, and transform her thinking. No Dom has ever started off a complete natural. Everyone needs training and additional tips for turning their intermediate knowledge into professional / expert level understanding. In "Mastering The Art of Dominance," you will learn: - How to attract subs (even if you’ve been unsuccessful in the past) - How to avoid mentally disturbed subs before it’s too late - How to turn your friend-with-benefits into a sub - How to identify troubled subs who can be helped and how to help them - How to manage multiple subs and multiple partners with fellow Doms - How to deal with jealousy and rivalries with multiple subs - And much more... By the time you finish this book, you’re going to be ready to be a top of your class Dom!